As people get older, we are always told to find our people, our own group of friends that you could click with, almost as if it is destiny to find these people who match you perfectly. But for many, it never works out perfectly as planned. It is likely that someone finds a group early on, and continues to stay with that group throughout all of school. But, others jump from different friend groups trying to find where they fit in. Moving in and out of friend groups is not all bad as it creates us into who we are now.

Making new friends and hanging out with new people teaches someone how to adapt to different personalities. Each friend group has their own sense of humor, what they choose not to like (who they chose not to like), and what to take seriously versus unseriously. Staying friendly, and making many friends helps someone finding who matches their true personality. Friendships expose someone to a wide version of the world. Being around the same group of people everyday could make someone feel lonely, and as if they do not have many people surrounding them. Moving around allows you to meet people you would’ve never thought you could get along with.

For most of my high school years, I felt stuck, alone, and that no one could understand me, but after meeting new people, cheering, and finding similarities within other people, I met some of my closest friends, ones I would not trade the world for. High school is the best opportunity to find a close group of friends, along with other people that you get along with. You can belong to more than one group of people.

Growing up is not about finding a friend or two, sticking with them throughout the years, but I think someone is meant to find multiple friends, who match their energy, personality, and just get them. I am so thankful to find people who get me, and love me for who I am.